🌻Love Letters❤

I’ve decided to learn how to love myself. It’s not always easy, but the journey to feeling comfortable in my skin is so worth it. I write about it, because this is a way for me to punctuate what I’ve learned, to reassure myself that I’m going where I want to go 🙂 self-love and self-care are so so important!

Don’t Dream It’s Over

“It is a happiness to wonder. It is a happiness to dream” – Edgar Allen Poe It is a happiness to let yourself wonder, and to let yourself dream. Lately, I haven’t been letting myself do either. And I have been miserable. It’s been almost five months since I graduated college, but only 2 months … Continue reading

Closing the Gaps

The self-discrepancy theory states that people compare themselves to internalized standards called “self-guides”. These different representations of the self can be contradictory and result in emotional discomfort. Self-discrepancy is the gap between two of these self-representations. The theory states that people are motivated to reduce the gap in order to remove disparity in self-guides – Good Ol’ … Continue reading

Lady in the Red Sparkly Dress

This morning, I had a vision of a woman, standing on a stage with an orchestra behind her, lights on her, the audience quiet. She was singing – I don’t know what, but I know she was singing. She had a head full of curls covering her face. And a red sparkly dress. This is … Continue reading

I’m Thankful For the Valleys

Thanksgiving is just around the corner, and despite the Christmas music blaring through my speakers, I did not forget about it. Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays, and not because of the big meal. Rather, because it’s a time set aside specifically to reflect on our lives, to think on the people and experiences … Continue reading